Family gatherings can be a mixed bag. It’s not always easy to please everyone, especially when it comes to family events. One Reddit user recently shared their experience on the AITA subreddit, and it left many of us wondering: what would we do in that situation?
The anonymous Reddit user had always been successful compared to their family members. Whenever they were in town, they made it a point to treat their loved ones to dinner. So when their mom informed them of a family gathering at a high-end steakhouse, they didn’t think much of it.
However, upon arrival, they were in for a shock. Over 20 people were gathered at the restaurant, which was quite a departure from the small, intimate gatherings they were used to. To make matters worse, everyone had already ordered expensive steaks, ranging from $80 to $250 per person.
Feeling taken advantage of, the Reddit user decided to take a stand. They left $100 on the table to cover their portion of the bill and walked out of the restaurant. The following day, they left the country without saying goodbye.
It’s understandable that the Reddit user felt hurt and betrayed. They had always been generous to their family, providing cars, home renovations, vacations, and more. Yet, their act of kindness seemed to go unappreciated.
When the Reddit user reached out to their mother to apologize and make amends, they were met with accusations of selfishness, greed, and disrespect. This harsh response was unexpected, given their history of generosity.
In response to the lack of gratitude, the Reddit user decided to make some changes. They cancelled certain services and cut off financial assistance to those who failed to appreciate their generosity. Unfortunately, this led to tensions escalating within the family, with the Reddit user even being uninvited from a cousin’s wedding.
When the story was shared with the Reddit community, the user received overwhelming support. The majority agreed that the Reddit user was not in the wrong (NTA) for standing up for themselves. Many felt that their family had crossed a line by assuming they would foot the bill and inviting so many people to an expensive restaurant.
What do you think? Should the Reddit user have taken a stand, or should they have handled the situation differently? Family dynamics can be complicated, and it’s important to find a balance between generosity and setting boundaries. Let us know your thoughts!
